She has always done a great job. At the most recent party, however, I noticed she had set up a tip jar next to the drinks. I was horrified. I went over and grabbed the jar, then pulled her aside ...

She has always done a great job. At the most recent party, however, I noticed she had set up a tip jar next to the drinks. I was horrified. I went over and grabbed the jar, then pulled her aside ...

She has always done a great job. At the most recent party, however, I noticed she had set up a tip jar next to the drinks. I was horrified. I went over and grabbed the jar, then pulled her aside ...

Tip jars at house parties are a big no-no. Getty Images. Getty Images DEAR MISS MANNERS: I hold an annual party, for which I hire a person to assist me in setting it up, maintaining the buffet and ...

She has always done a great job. At the most recent party, however, I noticed she had set up a tip jar next to the drinks. I was horrified. I went over and grabbed the jar, then pulled her aside ...

I told her to tell me how much she felt like I was underpaying her, and that I would compensate her so she didn’t need a tip jar. I went back to the friends I had been chatting with and ...

She has always done a great job. At the most recent party, however, I noticed she had set up a tip jar next to the drinks. I was horrified. I went over and grabbed the jar, then pulled her aside ...